How to Get Involved with Your Middle Schooler

Middle School for most means one word, awkwardness. It is when kids hit puberty, acne breaks out, voices change, new groups are formed, and they start becoming interested in the opposite sex. Awkward, it would appear, is an understatement. That is why it is very important for parents to become involved with their children. Being involved is not always easy; in fact it is very difficult. You can become too involved, you can say the wrong things, or you could push your kids to do what they do not want to do. Often, when parents do not involve themselves appropriately, the kids go through a rebellion stage, and that is the worst. So, read carefully and use these tips for you and your child.
Interestingly middle school fundraisers are often the least effective because of the lack of parental involvement.
The first tip is to be very supportive. This is a time that kids can find out what they really like to do. Whether it is basketball, the band, or drama, you need to be supportive. This can also be a great way for you to spend time together. You can shoot hoops, practice the guitar, or listen to them memorize their lines for a play. Whatever you do, you can be doing it together. Being involved and supportive also has other advantages. One advantage is that you know where your child is and what they are doing. Another advantage would be that you know who your child's friends are. That is a huge plus. Friends during the middle school age are very influential, and if kids have positive friends, then they will likely be positive as well.
Another tip would be to talk to the teachers or coaches. These adults spend nearly as much time as you do with your child, so they may have concerns that you had no idea about. For example, a new teacher noticed that one of her 6th graders was having trouble reading. Her parents did not think that anything was wrong because she had never had trouble before. But upon further investigation from the teacher, she found out that Samantha was dyslexic and then received help from specialized teachers. Because Samantha was too shy to tell her parents what she was having trouble with, they may have never known. So, do not hesitate to set up a parent teacher conference, just to see how your kid is doing.
The last tip would be to let them have their freedom. Now don't take this overboard. Just let them experience new things. Maybe they want to join the Spanish Club, let them do it. Maybe they want to go to a week long space camp, it would be fun. This is a time where kids realize who they are and what they enjoy doing, so don't make it hard for them to.
The thing that you must remember is that these tips do not create great kids. Neither do good parents. You just need to be supportive and lead them in the right direction.

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Written by Carol Holmes

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